Nervous about Breastfeeding in Public? Here are Some Hints and Breastfeeding Tips for Doing it Discreetly.
You are not alone. For new mothers, one of the most intimidating things to get used to is nursing in public. This is really an unnecessary fear.
Public breastfeeding does not have to be a cause of worry or embarrassment, because it can be done very discreetly in most public places.
Nursing in public does, however, take a little practice and confidence. One experienced mother told me this when I had my first child: “With the first one, you are careful to plan around breastfeeding and even hide to nurse. For the next baby you get braver and start breast feeding in public. By baby number three, you can breastfeed anywhere and most people don’t even realize you did it!”
This can ring so true. I have a friend who nursed her baby right next to me while watching a sporting event and I didn’t even see her do anything. Being a nursing mom myself, I thought for sure I would have had a clue!
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Public Breastfeeding Tips for Mommies
To help you have the confidence to nurse like a pro, here are some tips for discreetly breastfeeding in public:
1. Wear clothing that gives you easy access. Many nursing fashions make this a breeze. (Layering a nursing camisole under other clothing can also help.) Nursing tops are essential to discreet nursing in public. With the right breast feeding clothes, you can easily nurse without anyone even knowing that you did! Click here for some great nursing tops options.
2. Carry a blankie or cover up. Any lightweight blanket that can easily be draped over your shoulder to cover both you and your baby will work. I bought several in fabrics that I really liked (and they were also used to swaddle my babies when they were really young!)
3. Utilize a good baby sling. (I love baby slings!) Slings and baby wraps have a dual-purpose: They carry infants close and they can be used as a breastfeeding cover up when breastfeeding in public.
4. If possible, watch another mother breastfeed in public. Ask a friend who is breastfeeding to give you some pointers. Most nursing mothers are more than happy to help you. One other easy way to do this is to attend a La Leche League meeting while you are still pregnant. They will be very encouraging and helpful.
5. If this is your first baby, give yourself a little time to get used to breastfeeding before you try public breast feeding. Once you and your infant get the hang of it, you will be able to nurse anywhere!
Don’t forget. In the Unites States and Canada, there are "Breastfeeding in public" laws to protect breastfeeding mothers...so don’t be intimidated. They are introducing similar laws in other countries.
Discretion Isn't a Must!
You have right to feed you baby in public no matter where you are or where you live regardless of if you are prepared to be discrete or not!
It is beautiful and natural.
If you are a mom who feels intimated by the thought of breastfeeding in public...watch this video and be encouraged to nurse where you are!