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Breastfeeding and Alcohol

Breastfeeding Alcohol Breastfeeding and Alcohol can mix! You can continue breastfeeding and having a beer or drinking wine without worry! So go ahead and enjoy that romantic date or a night out with the girls even when you are still breastfeeding. The American Academy of Pediatrics Committee on Drugs considers alcohol completely compatible with breastfeeding. In addition, Le Leche League Health Advisory Council member Dr. Jack Newman has this to say in his breastfeeding handout More Breastfeeding Myths:"Reasonable alcohol intake should not be discouraged at all. As is the case with most drugs, very little alcohol comes out in the milk. The mother can take some alcohol and continue breastfeeding as she normally does. Prohibiting alcohol is another way we make life unnecessarily restrictive for nursing mothers.” <h3 >How Alcohol Affects Breastfeeding Moms
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As a general rule of thumb for breastfeeding and alcohol-- if you are sober enough to drive, you are sober enough to breastfeed. Normal adult metabolism of alcohol is approximately 1 ounce in 3 hours, so a mommy who drinks a moderate amount of alcohol can generally return to breastfeeding as soon as she feel like "normal" again. The fact remains that less than 2% of the alcohol drank by the mommy reaches her blood and her breast milk. The mom’s highest concentration of alcohol in her breast milk actually occurs approximately 1/2-1 hour after drinking. The milk alcohol levels work like blood alcohol levels...so when your blood alcohol levels go down, so do your milk alcohol levels. <h3 >Words of Caution:
    • Experts generally recommend drinking no more than 1-2 alcoholic drinks in a week while breastfeeding. Having an average of at least one drink every day has been linked in research to slow weight gain and a decrease in gross motor development in infants who are nursing.
 
  • If a breastfeeding mom consumes a large quantity of alcohol, there are potential side effects to your baby including: weakness, drowsiness, deep sleep, and abnormal weight gain. It can also be more difficult for a breastfeeding mother to get a good letdown reflex.
  • A child’s medical stability should also be considered when deciding whether to have a drink. Newborns have much more immature organs. Because of this, even very small amounts of alcohol can be harder on an infant’s system than it would be on an older child. The same would be true if you are breastfeeding a child with immune deficiencies or medical difficulties.
  • Premature infants also are less likely to be able to metabolize alcohol that may be present in breast milk. Therefore, it is recommended by most experts that moms who are breastfeeding preemies avoid breastfeeding their infants during the period of 2-3 hours after drinking alcoholic beverages.

But...as long as mommy is smart and uses moderation…alcohol is generally not a problem.


Milkscreen <h3 >Want to be Sure? If you really want to be safe, there is a new product Milkscreenthat analyzes breast milk for the presence of alcohol and can tell you if there is still alcohol in your system. We are so glad that someone created a product to give moms peace of mind that your milk is safe for your little one!

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Menstruation and Breastfeeding: Answers to Common Concerns

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Many new mothers have questions about menstruation and breastfeeding. What is “normal?” The answer: Just about anything.

When Will Your Period Return?

The return of your period depends upon many factors: how frequently the child is breastfeeding, if the child is supplemented with bottles or other food, how long the baby is sleeping at night, and whether or not the mother has started taking birth control pills. Any time the stimulation to the breast is decreased (especially at night) menstruation will likely start very soon.

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In my case, my period returned as soon as I switched from the mini-pill to my regular birth control pills with two of my children and when I introduced solids to my youngest. Each mom has a different body and a different situation.

Just Remember

Even before your period returns, you should consider yourself fertile and take precautions against pregnancy if desired. Some women consider their first period as their "warning period" that they are now capable of becoming pregnant.

However, I know too many women who didn’t get a "warning" before becoming pregnant with their next child.


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Frequently Asked Questions about Breastfeeding

Foods to Avoid When Breastfeeding

How do you learn which foods to avoid when breastfeeding? How do you know if your diet is affecting your infant?

The most important way to know is to pay attention to your baby. It may sound simple, but it is true. Your baby will let you know which foods to avoid when breastfeeding and which are ok.

Nursing mothers normally eat a variety of foods while breast-feeding. These foods will result in different flavors that change the taste of your breast milk. Your baby probably enjoys the variety.
Garlic and pasta

However, if your baby is particularly cranky and seems fussy about the milk one day, try to remember what you may have eaten. If she reacts the same way every time you take that particular food, it could be one of the foods to avoid when breastfeeding.

Most of the time, unless a mother has many food allergies, the foods that she eats won’t cause problems for her baby. However, some foods that a mother eats while breastfeeding do tend to affect the baby in negative ways. In many cases, this will be noticed by the mother whose infant seems to be suffering from colic, having sharp intestinal pains, abdominal bloating, and gas.

(Just remember…real colic is not caused by your milk. Some babies…like one of my own…just develop colic…and breastfeeding is still the absolutely best food…especially for these babies…no matter what anyone tells you!)

Common Foods to Avoid While Breastfeeding

For the most part, my munchkins let me eat what I wanted while I nursed. There are, however, some common foods that many nursing moms avoid. They are:

**spices such as garlic, chili, cinnamon, and pepper
** chocolate
** vegetables such as cabbage, onion, garlic, broccoli, cauliflower, and cucumber
** fruits such as prunes, cherries, orange, lemon, strawberry, grapefruit, pineapple, and kiwi.

My littlest would scream all night if I ate a little popcorn! So just pay attention…the seemingly most harmless thing could make his little tummy hurt!

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Other Foods to Watch

Some doctors will suggest avoiding cow’s milk when there is a history of milk allergies in the family or the infant is high risk. Ifyou have a family history. This is worth discussing with your baby’s doctor.

Drinking or eating things with caffeine is fine (under 750 ml per day), but in moderation. Caffeine can affect your baby’s sleep and make him cranky. (Which is the last thing that a sleep-deprived mom needs.)

Although large amounts of alcohol should be avoided as much as possible while you are nursing, an occasional alcoholic drink is acceptable…just not much beyond that. High blood alcohol content is not good for your baby.

Want an Occasional Splurge?

What do you do if your baby hates one of your favorite foods and you have determined that this is one of the foods to avoid when breastfeeding? Maybe you want to have a dinner of it before you are done nursing?

There is a answer for the occasional splurge…

My girlfriends call this “pump and dump.” For example, once your supply is established, you decide that you and the hubby want to have champagne to celebrate New Year’s Eve, but you don’t want the little one to have any. Simply pump your breasts for the next feeding or two and dump the milk. Use stored milk to feed your infant. That way you get the treat and the baby doesn’t!

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Low Carb Diet and Breastfeeding

Should Breastfeeding Moms Even Consider a Low Carb Diet?

That depends. A low-carb diet is a great option for some women because they can take off weight very quickly. However, diets like Atkins, South Beach and other Low-carb alternatives can cause some problems for a breastfeeding mom.

breastfeeding dietMost of these problems are related to what a very low carb diet can do to your body. During the early phases of these diets, you leave out carbohydrates in order to enter a fat-burning stage called ketosis. This burns fat, lessens hunger and flushes water out of the body. However, the ketones released into your breast milk WILL reach your nursing child and they have not yet determined if that is safe.

According to Atkins Health and Medical Information Services:

“The reason for [recommending that breastfeeding mothers not follow the Atkins diet] is because the only studies that observe ketosis in pregnancy or breast feeding are in uncontrolled diabetics who are in ketoacidosis, not the same thing as ketosis.
There are NO studies that show the safety of burning ketones and its effect on babies (either in utero or breast feeding). We do know that ketones are found in breast milk. Babies may have a different threshold of tolerating ketones than adults, maybe not, but I'm sure you do not want your child to be the guinea pig!”

Having said that, as long as you only use the maintenance stage of a low card diet, you will still probably lose weight, but slower and without releasing ketones.

Tips for moms who still wish to try a low-carb diet:

  • Wait until baby is at least 6 months old before dieting and has started solids foods.
  •  Avoid dehydration by drinking water, water and MORE WATER!
  • Start gradually and avoid “phase one” of any of the diets.
  •  Do not drop below 1800 calories per day on a low carb plan.
  •  Keep an eye on baby’s diaper output and weight gain. If you notice a decrease in your milk supply, stop immediately.

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Breastfeeding Myths Vs. Real Facts

Breastfeeding myths are everywhere...so beware.

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If you are planning on breastfeeding your baby, more than likely you're heard all kinds of stories and read multiple conflicting articles. Unfortunately, there are so many breastfeeding myths out there...so it is important to know the truth.

Myths Vs. Reality

Here are some of the most common myths and the truth about them to help you know what you really need to know about breastfeeding.

Myth #1 - Bottle Feeding is Easier than Breastfeeding

The Reality: This is really not true. While getting used to breastfeeding in the beginning may be a little difficult, it gets easier with time. By the time a baby is a few months old, it is a breeze.

Think about this…a screaming baby in the middle of the night only screams louder as you attempt to make a bottle. A breastfeeding mom can simply pick up the child and the food is ready to go and just the right temperature. If the baby sleeps next to you, you wouldn’t even have to get out of bed!

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Myth #2 - Breastfeeding will Cause Your Breasts to Sag

The Reality: No need to worry. Your breasts are not going to start sagging if you breastfeed. Usually there are various factors that can lead to sagging, and it is not breastfeeding that causes it.

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Myth #3 - Breast Milk Doesn't Have Enough Iron for Your Baby

The Reality: Breast milk is hand-down the best food for your baby. It even changes as your baby grows!

This is one of the most common breastfeeding myths. However, there is just the right amount of iron for your baby in breast milk and it absorbs better that the iron in formula or other foods. In some cases, formulas actually have too much iron.

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why settle for substitutes Myth #4 - Formulas are About the Same as Breast Milk

The Reality: While they are always trying to change formulas to be a bit more like breast milk, they do not have many important things, such as living cells, hormones, antibodies, and enzymes, that breast milk has.

Also, formulas can contain too much iron, aluminum, cadmium, manganese, and protein as well and are harder for your little one to digest!

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Breastfeeding Alcohol Myth #5 - You Shouldn't Drink Alcohol When Breastfeeding

The Reality : This is just another one of the breastfeeding myths that scare new moms! the truth is...as long as the alcohol intake is reasonable, it is perfectly fine. There is very little alcohol that will end up coming out in the milk, so this is fine for mother's who are nursing. For more information on how alcohol affects breastfeeding, click here.

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Myth #6 - Women with Breast Implants Can't Breastfeed

The Reality: There is absolutely nothing that has proven that breastfeeding with implants will cause any harm to the baby. In some cases, there can be a problem with the supply of milk, but women who have had implants in the past can still breastfeed their babies. Read a visitor’s story about breastfeeding after implants here…

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Myth #7 - Physicians Know Everything about Breastfeeding

The Reality: Not true! Some doctors actually believe some of these breastfeeding myths themselves!

While there are some physicians that are well versed in breast feeding, many actually know very little. In fact, in medical school there is barely anything learned by doctors about breastfeeding. If you are in doubt about your doctor’s advice…get a second opinion.

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Myth #8 - Nipple Confusion Doesn't Exist

The Reality: Nipple confusion really does exist! We hear from moms all the time whose are exclusive pumping because a baby preferred a bottle.

You see babies who were bottle fed early in the beginning may refuse to breast feed. This is because it is actually easier for a baby to get milk from a bottle at first than from your breast. Introducing a bottle or pacifier once breastfeeding is well-established may help avoid the issue.

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Myth #9 - Women Must Stop Breastfeeding When Pregnant

The Reality: Once again, this is just another of the common breastfeeding myths that is completely untrue!

You can still go on nursing your baby, even if you are pregnant. While some women find that their nipples become more sensitive and choose to stop, there is really no medical reason that you need to stop breastfeeding if you become pregnant again. For more information on nursing while pregnant…

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Myth #10 - Extended Nursing is Abnormal and Bad for Children

The Reality: Believe it or not, in many cultures it used to be common for breastfeeding to last until children were 2-4 years of age. This does not lead to dependence on the mother; in fact, many seem to be more independent. Learn the benefits of extended breastfeeding here.

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Myth #11 - You Can't Dye Hair or Get a Perm When Breastfeeding

The Reality: You can dye your hair or get a perm if you like. This will in no way affect you breastfeeding your baby. I just might make mommy feel better…which is good for everyone!!!

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Myth #12 - Women with Inverted or Flat Nipples Can't Breastfeed

The Reality: This is absolutely untrue. You see, breastfeeding occurs within the breast, not just the nipples. Sure, prominent nipples make it quite a bit easier for the baby to latch on at first, but inverted nipples or even flat nipples can be used to successfully breastfeed.

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Breastfeeding Twins Tandem Myth #13 - Breastfeeding Twins is Too Hard to Try

The Reality: In reality, it's a lot easier to breastfeed your twins than to try to bottle feed them, as long as breastfeeding is working out well. Breastfeeding twins is not only possible, but can be a joy! Your body can do it! So can you. Visit our Breastfeeding Twins page for helpful tips!

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Myth #14 - Pain When Breastfeeding is Normal

The Reality: At first there can be a bit of tenderness when you first start breastfeeding, there should not be pain. Any real pain that happens can be a problem with your baby latching on right. Pain is abnormal, so if you have pain that lasts more than a couple days, you may need to get it checked out.

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Myth #15 - Many Women Don't Have Enough Milk for Breastfeeding

The Reality: Actually, most women actually produce more milk than they really need to!

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Breast Milk Production: Is Baby Getting Enough?

New moms often worry too much about their breast milk production. Often their biggest concern has to do with whether or not the baby is getting enough to eat.


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Breastfeeding a baby is not like using a bottle where you can simply look to see how much milk or formula the baby took. Growth SpurtsBreastfeeding can be something that mothers fear, simply because they feel that they lose some control and will never know whether or not the baby is eating enough or not.


Your body is made to adjust to what your baby needs so you do not need to worry.

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But if you feel that you need additional reassurance, there are some things that can be looked for in order to determine whether or not the baby is getting adequate amounts of milk.

For a breast feeding infant look for:

  • Wet diapers

  • Dirty diapers

  • Urine color

  • Weight gain

  • Feeding frequency

  • The feeding act itself

When looking for wet diapers, you want to make sure that you are seeing about five to six wet diapers each day. During the first few days of life however, you may only see one or two wet diapers per twenty-four hour period. This is because the baby is only getting colostrum from the breast at first.

The inspection of dirty diapers is to determine the quantity of the milk that the baby is drinking. In the beginning, typically just the first few days, the dirty diapers will have sticky black or green stools and then brown stools. After a few days have passed, the stools should be loose, yellow, and have a seedy appearance. This type of stool is referred to as milk stools.

Urine color should be pale in color. You may notice reddish or pink diapers the first few days because of the crystals that are in the urine. If this coloration continues for any longer than the first few days or is another dark color, make sure that you are consulting with your baby's doctor.

If your newborn drops up to nine percent of his or her birth weight, within the first few days of life, this should not alarm you, as it is normal. After that initial drop in weight, weight gain should be consistent, gaining about five ounces per week.

You also want to watch for the frequency of feedings. Breastfeeding newborns eat around eight to twelve times per twenty-four hour period. If your newborn is eating that often, it is probably safe to say that your infant is getting enough breast milk. Once the baby hits the two-month age mark, you might find that you are breastfeeding less often.

As for the actual act of breastfeeding, you want to watch and listen. The baby should be sucking deeply and then pausing every once in a while for swallowing. You might even see a little dribble of milk coming out of the corner of the mouth of the baby, which is another sign that the baby is getting milk and you have established good breast milk production.



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How Formula Advertisements Try to Fool New Parents

Gimmicks won’t do your baby any good, but formula
advertisements will try anything to fool you into not breastfeeding.

You get up early in the morning, wrap yourself in a warm robe, and make yourself to the kitchen. You turn on a small kitchen appliance and pour in some water. Minutes later you don’t have a cup of coffee to wake yourself up, but a warm bottle of formula to nourish the baby starting to cry down the hall. This is the picture Nestle hopes you will see as desirable as they start to roll out a new formula maker that operates on pods much like a coffee maker.

stop misleading advertisingThis is only one example of the way some manufacturers are now catering to parents who prefer to bottle feed. Since there are many such parents around the world this may not seem like a big deal, but there is harm in marketing formula as the best way to feed an infant. All parents need to know the truth about artificial formulas and breast milk, so they can make decisions that protect the health and well being of their babies.

Know the Code

So many parents do not realize that there is an active code sponsored by the World Health Organization (WHO) advocating the health and safety of breastfeeding. This code specifies that all companies signing onto the code stop advertising and promoting artificial infant formulas. There will always be people who want or need to use these formulas for their own reasons, but the advertisement of formula sends the wrong message to unsuspecting parents. It makes them feel that bottle feeding with formula is preferred, more convenient, or even more damaging, just as good as breastfeeding.

There is clear evidence that breast milk is far superior to artificial infant formula. A mother’s milk protects a baby from illness, disease and infection in a powerful way. No matter what advancements are made in the formula industry, there is no way for an artificial product to mimic the health protections that are passed between a mother and her baby through natural breast milk.

There are some formula companies that advertise in a manner that seems to say “our formula is just as natural and wholesome as breast milk.” This is deceptive, since there are protections offered through breast milk that simply cannot come through an artificial formula.

Defend the Code

While the WHO code is an honorable attempt to let all parents know how beneficial breastfeeding is to the littlest members of our society, there is one problem with the code: it is nearly impossible to enforce. Companies like Nestle have been charged with breaking the code on numerous instances, and there are no consequences for their behavior. Countries signing to the code seem unable to hold companies accountable for their aggressive advertising schemes on behalf of formula products.

formula advertisement quoteThis is why the new formula brewing kitchen appliance put out by Nestle is raising so much criticism. It’s not that some parents won’t find the machine useful or that Nestle has no right to explore new forms of technology. The problem is that they don’t have the right to mislead parents into thinking machines like this are better for their babies than breast milk.

The best thing parents can do is defend the WHO code by refusing to use formula products in their household. You cannot control what other parents are feeding their babies, but you can make sure you give your baby the healthiest feeding options. This is always going to be breast milk created by your own body, not by a percolating machine in the kitchen!

The more parents are informed of the health benefits of breastfeeding, the more they will be able to see through the heavy marketing tactics of companies like Nestle. Parents who are informed are much less likely to put the profit of a company ahead of the health of their babies.

Self-Create…Don’t Percolate!

While no one wants to stomp on advancing technology, it is important that parents see through the gimmicks currently coming out in the artificial formula market. Nestle may very well find parents who choose to bottle feed for their own reasons and convince them that they need to pay an outrageous price for formula pods and a formula brewing machine. What Nestle should not be allowed to do is convince unsuspecting parents that they should switch from breastfeeding to bottle feeding because of these conveniences.

There are definitely advantages to breastfeeding that no technology can beat. The comfort of knowing the food you put into your little one’s mouth is protecting them from illness is far more important than being able to quickly percolate a warm bottle along with your morning coffee. In fact, there is nothing faster than propping your breast up for your baby to feed from. Your natural milk is always ready to go…no percolating necessary!

How Can YOU Help?

Don’t let others be fooled into thinking that formula is anything less than a SUBSTITUTE.  Pass along information that need to make a good decision!

When parents know the facts, they won’t be fooled by the gimmicks.

 

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Exclusive Nursing Your Breastfeeding Baby

by Jennifer L. Reynolds LVN, CLE, IBCLC, Contributing Writer

What is the big deal with exclusive nursing? Well, there really is a lot a baby can benefit from. As lactation consultants, we encourage mothers to exclusively breastfeed as much as possible. Exclusive breastfeeding is the best method for feeding infants according to experts, including the World Health Organization, the Center for Disease Control, and American Academy of Pediatrics.

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So, what does it mean to exclusively breastfeed? By definition, it is to give only breast milk to healthy term infants with no other food or drink for 6 months.

Infants should be introduced to nutrient rich solid foods, with particular attention to iron, at 6 months of age, while continuing to breastfeed. (For more information on starting solid foods...)

It also means that when we have a mom or an infant who is frustrated with a feeding, or a baby who feeds on 1 breast only, or even a baby who will not latch at 24 hours of age, we still want to continue supporting the effort to exclusively breastfeed.

At the time of these events, intervention may be necessary, but it doesn’t always mean giving a bottle as the first step. As long as there is no medical indication, let’s remember that the baby can do it. Hopefully we can give it some time to succeed.

When there is difficulty, try these suggestions:

  • Use skin to skin
  • Work on good and correct positioning using a pillow table to get the most effective latch
  • Remember that providing positive encouragement and support can go a long way with a mother who desperately wants to breastfeed her baby
  • The three P’s!-- Practice, Patience and Perseverance

Lactation consultants assisting moms with these interventions may help them to succeed and exclusively breastfeed their babies.

Why Encourage Exclusive Breastfeeding?

We want to encourage exclusivity because it is linked to longer duration and because breast milk is the healthiest way to feed an infant. Breastfeeding is an unequaled method of providing the ideal food and nutrition for the healthy growth and development of babies. As a natural food, it has all essential nutrients needed for infants the first 6 months.

We would like all our mothers who are breastfeeding to be successful at it. The best way is put that baby to breast frequently - as often as possible because it is both a natural process and a learned behavior.

If a bottle of formula is introduced too quickly a baby’s chance of success is decreased. The baby needs to get used to her anatomy (his mom’s breast) and a bottle nipple is quite different. No matter how they try to replicate it, bottles will never be the same as a mom’s breast.

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Exclusive Nursing Benefits for Mom

The benefits for mothers with exclusive breastfeeding are numerous. It provides many positive health outcomes. There is a delayed return of menses for a mother who is exclusively feeding. Maternal weight loss is also enhanced (it is greatest in a mother who breastfeed at least 4 months).

Exclusive Nursing Benefits for Baby

There are many benefits for the baby who is breastfed. Exclusive nursing reduces infant mortality due to common illnesses by strengthening immune support for a quicker recovery during illness. Gastro-intestinal illness is greatly decreased because breast milk adds additional protection against GI infections.

Let’s all try to be an advocate for these new moms who want to breastfeed and help her to achieve these goals!


About the Author:
Jennifer L. Reynolds is a LVN, CLE, IBCLC working as a hospital-based Lactation Consultant in Long Beach, California. She loves working with new mom's and babies and has a passion for helping new breastfeeding mothers be successful. She is also the mother of two, Sydney and Tyler, and wife to Matt.




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Baby Cereal and First Foods for Breastfeeding Babies

Wonder when to start baby cereal or introduce your breastfeeding baby to his first foods?

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You'll find a lot of advice about how to starting solids with your baby. It can be confusing, since different sources may give you different information.

Most breastfeeding babies will show signs of being ready to try new foods sometime between the ages of five to nine months.

How do you know When Baby is Ready?

Although in most cases, it is best to let your baby tell you when he or she is ready, doctors now recommend that you delay start solids in breastfeeding babies until they are six months old. It is most beneficial to your baby to be exclusively breastfeed until then.

How do you know he is ready? You may notice that baby begins to reach for foods on your plate. This is a good indication that they may be ready to start experimenting with solid food.

Should You Start with Cereal

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While many doctors might suggest that your little one start first on baby cereal, many 6-month-old children really don’t seem to like it and breastfed babies really don’t need it.

Offer other new foods, and try again later. But if he or she is still not interested in baby cereal, don’t worry about it. There is nothing special about cereal. Your baby will do just fine without it. The best and easiest way for your baby to get any additional iron is by introducing meat, not baby cereal.)

Great First Foods

Once your baby is showing signs of readiness, many moms begin them with some mashed sweet potato or yam. This is a sweet vegetable that is very nutritious, and most babies really like them.

Other good choices for beginning solids are mashed banana, unsweetened applesauce, mashed potatoes and mashed peas. Sweet vegetables and fruits are good choices to begin with since the baby may find them similar to the sweetness of breast milk. (Anyone who suggests that you not start with fruit because of its sweetness, it not aware of how sweet natural breast milk is!)

How Much

Feed only a quarter of a teaspoonful of baby cereal or mashed food to begin with, increasing the amount very slowly as your baby shows more interest. Solids can be offered just once a day in the beginning, and then slowly increased as the baby wants.

You may want to nurse your baby before their serving of solid food. This ensures that they are not too hungry to settle down and experiment with a new food. Don't be alarmed if he or she plays with his or her food more than eat it. This is normal, and an important part of learning about new foods for a baby.

Moving Beyond Very First Foods

As they get used to a few solids and can eat foods that are a little chunkier, you can add:

• small cubes of avocado

• banana and grapes that have been halved and then quartered into small pieces.

• Small pieces of shredded, well-cooked chicken and other meats. (Meat also provides iron, which many older babies need to add to their diet.)

• Canned fruits like peaches and pears can be cut up into small pieces that your baby can feed to himself.

• Bits of baked potato, cooked carrots, green beans and squash may also be offered.

As baby grows, they also will be able to eat pieces of toasted bread, crackers and cereals. In fact, a hard bagel is perfect when baby is teething, as it does not contain the sugar that commercial teething biscuits do.

Other First Food Tips

• Be sure to use only single ingredients so if your baby does have a reaction to a food, you'll know what it is.

• It is okay to not offer solids every single day at the beginning.

• Your baby will indicate when his or her appetite increases enough to want more.

• Feed your baby the same foods that you eat. Not only does this make preparing your baby's food more convenient for you, but they are already used to tasting a difference in the breast milk from what you eat, so similar tastes will be familiar to them.


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Ecological Breastfeeding: Is it Right for You?

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One way to naturally prevent pregnancy is by practicing ecological breastfeeding. The likelihood of becoming pregnant during the first three months is almost zero and very unlikely throughout the entire first year. Since the apostolic era, the Catholic Church has encouraged parents to use natural family planning for child spacing using this method instead of contraception.

Common Characteristics of this Method

The key to the natural child spacing aspect of breastfeeding is frequent and unrestricted nursing:

• Mom and baby are together full-time
• Frequent suckling is necessary
• Breastfeeding on cue (day and night)
• The baby is naturally pacified at the breast
• Co-sleeping is strongly encouraged
• Breastfeeding in a lying-down position for naps and at night
• Utilizing no bottles or pacifiers

Ecological Breastfeeding

Return of Menstruation

The average time for the return of menstrual periods is 14.6 months. Only 7% of moms menstruate within the first 6 months of their baby’s life when practicing this method. 37% start again within the second half of baby’s first year. The rest usually see their period again sometime in their baby’s second year.

Breast feeding moms whose periods return are still unable to get pregnant in the first few menstrual cycles. Those whose periods return later usually ovulate before their first visible cycle.

A great resource to guide you in choosing this natural family planning method is “Breastfeeding and Natural Child Spacing: How Ecological Breastfeeding Spaces Babies” by Sheila K. Kippley available through Amazon.com.



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Starting Solids when Breastfeeding

Thinking about starting solids? Don’t know when to start solid foods?

Although some doctors may disagree, most new research shows that the best time to start a breastfeed baby on solid foods is after six months.

Breast milk provides all the nutrition that your baby needs and is the best food for him or her. There is no need to be in a hurry to replace it.

What are the Current Recommendations?

The recommendation from the American Academy of Pediatrics is for exclusive breastfeeding for the first six months. The World Health Organization (WHO) also recommends that breastfeeding mothers delay the introduction of solid foods for a full six months.

Starting Solids

Advantages to Delaying Solid Foods

Here are some advantages to starting solid food after six months of age:

• Your baby has a more developed digestive system.

• There is a decreased health risk from contaminated foods.

• Baby has more interest in solid foods.

• Your little one has the ability to sit up on his own and pick up foods.

• Exclusive breastfeeding lowers the risk of your baby developing allergies and ear infections.

• Less chance of mom’s breast milk supply prematurely drying up.

How Do You Know If Baby Is Ready?

There are some tell-tale signs that your child might be ready to start solids. They are:

• Your baby can sit up on his own.

• She shows a readiness to chew (even without teeth!)

• He has the ability to pick up food and bring it to his mouth.

• She has lost the tongue-thrust reflex (that makes little ones sit everything back out!)

Don't Believe the Myths!

Feeding a baby solid food will not help your baby sleep through the night faster. It simply isn't true.


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Growth Spurts of a Breastfeeding Baby

Growth Spurts Is your breastfeeding baby nursing all the time? It may just be another one of their growth spurts!

What are Growth Spurts?

They are a very normal part of development in a baby’s life. A new, inexperienced mother may wonder why her baby is more fussy than usual or why she needs to nurse more often. A spurt is simply when the baby’s body grows more rapidly than normal.

In fact, your child will experience growth spurts all throughout his childhood. Your baby, however, will have these spurts more often because babies grow more rapidly than children or adolescence.

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When Do They Occur?

Your baby will most likely experience a growth spurt a few days after birth, one to three weeks, six to eight weeks, three months, six months and between seven and nine months. Each baby, however, is different and there is no rule that state when a baby will go through a spurt. They may come more randomly...and often do!

When a baby is growing, he may be more fussy than usual. He may wake several times at night to nurse and he will be nursing more during the day. Don’t worry if your infant wants to breastfeed more often than usual. He’s is getting what he needs.

Babies hunger increases during a spurt. Chances are you are producing enough milk for him and by nursing more often, you are signaling your body to produce more!

If your baby is gaining enough weight, has five to six very wet diapers a day and is having regular bowel movements, chances are good that your baby is getting enough milk. However, if your child does not seem to be gaining weight or keeps a dry diaper for unusually long periods of time, make a visit to your pediatrician to assure all is well with your child.

How Long Do They Last

They usually last 24 to 48 hours. However, they can sometimes take as long as a week to run their course. During your child’s growth spurt, increase your water intake and breastfeed on demand. This will assist you in producing enough milk.

After a growing spurt babies have been known to sleep more for a couple days, you will feel fuller for a day or two, baby may have more wet diapers than normal, and he will calm down at the breast.

"How Do I Handle This?"

The best way to handle your baby’s growing spurt is to just relax and listen to your baby’s cues. He will tell you when he needs to nurse and you will be able to tell by his weight gain and number of wet diapers if he is getting the nourishment he needs.

Don’t let this be a stressful time for you. Rather, enjoy your baby and taking these opportunities to enjoy and bond with your child.

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Breastfeeding and Cancer: Facts You Should Know

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Maybe you are excited and about to have a baby. Or perhaps you are about to become a new mother and face a dilemma.....to breastfeed or not to breastfeed?


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Here is something you may find interesting. Breastfeeding may also help protect you against breast cancer. Wow, isn't that a huge bonus to breastfeeding a baby! By spending time bonding together, giving your baby nutrients and immune factors, you are also helping your own breast health at the same time. Talk about multi-tasking!

So, how does this happen? It is thought that the longer a woman breastfeeds her children over her lifetime, the less chance there is of her having breast cancer.

In developing countries, it is very normal for women to have larger families and feed their babies longer. The number of children a woman has in a developing country, and the length of time she breast feeds, is different compared to a developed country.

Women in USA and Britain have approx 2.5 children and breast feed on average about three months. If they have 2.5 children, it means a women spends about 8 months of total breastfeeding time.

In contrast, in developing countries it is normal for a women to have 6 children and feed them longer (for approximately two years.) That means that these women will be breastfeeding a total of about twelve years.

Why the Decreased Cancer Risk?

Being pregnant decreases the level of estrogen a woman is exposed to, due to the fact she is not ovulating. Women who do not ovulate or they ovulate less due to extended breastfeeding, can have reduced risk of breast cancer, due to the lower estrogen exposure. When women breast feed, it causes hormone changes in the breast which alters the level of estrogen. If your estrogen is lower, perhaps so is the risk of breast cancer.

Breastfeeding also causes changes in the mammary ducts which can also make breast cells resistant to breast cancer. It is also thought that women who were breastfed when they were babies themselves, may have decreased risk due to their mothers breast milk hormones and immune factor goodies they had as a baby.

So the question to breast feed or not to breast feed needs to be weighed and every woman will have her own views on the subject…but when you are going through your own thoughts on the matter, please take into consideration that not only is breast feeding fantastic for your baby, but breast feeding may protect you against breast cancer as well.

Wishing you the best of breast health!


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Dieting While Breastfeeding: Tips for Losing Weight Without Weaning

Need some help dieting while breastfeeding?

Well, whether you are looking to get that fabulous figure back or want to finally get that fabulous figure that you never had-- losing the extra weight may mean going on a breastfeeding diet.

However, if you question whether losing weight while breastfeeding is healthy for you or and the baby, here are ten tips you need to know regarding how to lose weight safely without needing to wean your child.


1. Wait Two Months

Breastfeeding diet Your breasts need time to make a healthy supply of milk for the baby. If you restrict your calorie intake too early, this can reduce the amount of milk your body produces.

2. Make Sure That You Consume Enough Calories

When you are dieting while breastfeeding, you will need to eat at least 1,800 calories every day. If you consume less than that, the quality of your breast milk could suffer.

3. Not too Quickly

After the initial 60 days, try to lose no more than 2 pounds per week. It is safe to lose this amount without risking your breast milk supply. Take care not to lose more than this while breastfeeding.

4. Count those Calories

If you don’t eat or drink enough, your body may try to conserve resources and your milk supply may decrease.

5. Natural is Better

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You may be tempted to try weight loss supplements, liquid diets and other "quick fix" diet programs. Resist this urge. While breastfeeding, it is important that weight loss happens as naturally as possible so you can make sure that your milk quality is good and your body is healthy! Want to see what breastfeeding diets work for breastfeeding moms?

6. Avoid the Junk Food

An easy way to lose extra pounds safely on a breastfeeding diet is to eliminate the junk food from your diet. Sodas, cakes, chips and other foods of this type do very little for you or your baby’s health. Cut them out of your diet and some pounds will drop off naturally.

7. Water. Water. More Water!

Water is critical to breast milk production. While nursing, make sure to drink at least 8 glasses of water each day! Try not to quench your thirst with sodas and other sweetened drinks.

8. Resume Workouts Slowly

We all want our figures back. We are all tempted to workout aggressively to get it back. Don't do it. While nursing, your body needs to conserve energy. Start slowly. Begin with 10-15 minutes a day and slowly increase your routine.

9. Follow a Set Schedule

It is hard enough to fit in a shower…so exercising while nursing is difficult to schedule. But, with discipline and planning, it can be done. Plan ahead so you can begin working out right after your baby is finished with a breastfeeding…that way your baby will be satisfied and content long enough to finish your routine.

10. Remember to Clean Up

It may sound silly, but some babies do not like their mommy to be sweaty when they nurse. So try to clean up right after exercising or have some baby wipes nearby before trying to breastfeed your baby.

Bottom line...you can safely lose weight while nursing your child without needing to wean. If you are planning on dieting while breastfeeding and follow the tips above, you can drop the excess weight without compromising your body's milk supply and still keep your baby's feeding schedule is from being unnecessarily interrupted.

You are sure to have your figure back in no time!


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Breastfeeding Saves Money


Breastfeeding is not only healthy, but saves money too!


Expecting a new baby? There is an easy way to save a great deal of money...just breastfeed. That is right. Breastfeeding is not only healthy, but also is economical as well.

The first and most obvious savings is because you do not have to buy formula. The average mother can save approximately $1500 in the first year of their baby’s life just by providing breast milk instead of purchasing formula.

Even if you are going back to work and need to purchase a pump and spend a couple of hundred dollars, then you are still over a thousand dollars ahead for the first child and can reuse the pump for future children.

Breastfeeding Saves Money

The second savings is in health care costs. In a study conducted by Kaiser Permanente Health Maintenance Organization, researchers estimated that the average cost of health care for a formula-fed baby compared to those babies who were breastfed for at least 6 months was and additional $1,400 for the first year. They also concluded that the United States could save about one and a half billion dollars each year in formula and health care costs if 1 million additional babies were breastfed.

The third cost of a formula feed baby over a breastfed one is on lost income. How much does one parent in the family lose by missing a full day of work? Because sicknesses are more common in babies who are formula-fed, doctor and hospital visits happen far more often for these families.

Considering that breastfeeding is best for mom and best for baby and it saves a significant amount of money, shouldn’t moms at least give it a try? You might be surprised at all the benefits breastfeeding can bring.



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How to Enjoy Breastfeeding Twins

Breastfeeding twins is not only possible, but can be enjoyable and rewarding!

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Let’s face it. We were wonderfully designed. Although most of the time, us mommies have one baby at a time, and we were designed to easily feed more than one baby!

Even more amazing, either of our breasts can make enough milk to feed a baby – and that means that God has already covered the possibility that more than one baby might be breastfeeding at a time!

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Will There Be Enough Milk?

Of course! Your milk supply works like this: The more milk that is taken from the breast, the more the breast will make! So if there are two babies removing that milk, then the breast will just respond by making twice as much milk! (Yes, this even works for twins, triplets and more!)

No matter what you are told…there is no reason that the mother of twins shouldn't be able to feed two babies exclusively…with no supplements!

But is it practical?

Can you handle breastfeeding twins and still have a life? Many people will tell you “No.” They will tell you “you will not do anything but nurse babies day in and day out.”

Don’t be discouraged. It can be done. And yes, you can still have a life.

But you must get yourself prepared…your life is about to change in big and wonderful ways!

What You Need to Do Now

To prepare for breastfeeding twins, your job right now is to learn as much as you can about the following things so that you know what to expect and can be prepared when your babies come:

* Breastfeeding – Read all you can about how breastfeeding works. Just remember--all the benefits of breastfeeding apply to twins – times two! They'll be healthier, you'll decrease your risk of breast cancer and you'll save double the time and money by not having to deal with formula!

* Breastfeeding preemies - There is a very good chance your babies will be early. Talk to your doctor and pediatrician about what that may mean for you.

*Expressing and storing milk? – Depending on whether or not your babies are premature, how early and whether they require special hospital care, you may need to express your milk and store it so it can be used as the babies are ready for it…or it may be tube fed to them.

Get yourself a good breast pump or rent one. The best ones – especially if your babies won't be ready to go to the breast from birth – are the larger rental hospital-grade pumps, or a large double electric model like Medela Pump in Style.

Tandem Nursing Twins * Managing twins–Read books about caring for twins or join a good support group like Le Leche League, so you know how to manage your new family.

* Selecting doctors – Now is the time to make sure that your doctor is fully supportive of breastfeeding twins! Explain your desire to breastfeed your babies and if they seem to be less than supportive, find a new doctor who will be a cheerleader for you…not another doubter. You will need their support!

*Breastfeeding supplies--Talk to other mothers, your doctor or a lactation consultant about what supplies may be helpful. You will want to pick these out and purchase them early enough in your pregnancy so that you are not caught unprepared if the babies come early. Breast pumps and nursing pillows are two items most mommies of twins suggest getting right away!




Helpful Advice

Mothering Multiples A great resource for anyone expecting (or currently caring for) twins is “Mothering Multiples: Breastfeeding and Caring for Twins or More!” by Karen Kerkhoff Gromada.

She provides the best, most specific advice for all aspects of caring for twins throughout the first two years that we have found.

She discusses caring for preemies and low-birth weight babies, managing relations with the multiples’ siblings, and the psychological affects of taking on the responsibility of caring for twins or multiples. She also had many specific practical suggestions for making life easier for any mom! It is well worth the read if you plan on breastfeeding twins and have multiple blessings coming your way!


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Breastfeeding Nutrition: Good Nutrition for Breastfeeding Moms

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Both good breastfeeding nutrition and nursing are sure ways to give your child a big boost in life. Breast milk has the exact nutrients your child needs in each and every stage and each and every feeding. Breastfeeding feeds your baby’s brain and helps your baby with physical and emotional development. All of the nutrients your baby needs are supplied from your diet.

When you are nursing, your breastfeeding diet should include the breastfeeding nutrition for both you and your baby. Some suggest that breast feeding moms should add 300 to 500 calories daily for use in the breast milk production. Counting calories isn’t necessary as long as you are eating a well balanced diet with the vitamins and nutrients that you and your baby need.


Good Nutrition for Breastfeeding Moms:
What You SHOULD Eat!

Eat the Carbs!

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You need carbohydrates to supply a large percentage of your calories and nutrients. Whole grains are also important. There is more good nutrition for breastfeeding moms in whole grains than their processed counterparts. Multi grain breads, cereals, and pastas should be a big part of your diet.

Pass the Veggies!

As a breastfeeding mother, fresh vegetables and fruits should be in your diet daily. An assortment of fruits and vegetables should be eaten throughout the week. Choices should include broccoli, carrots, leafy greens, berries, citrus fruit, and other favorites. These supply the vitamins and minerals you and your baby need.

Don’t Completely Eliminate Fats

Fatty acids are important of maternal nutrition for your baby’s proper brain development and function. However, if you do not include enough of these in your diet, they will be taken from your body.

Moms who do not get enough omega 3 and omega 6 fatty acids, you may find that they have difficulty thinking. This fuzzy mental feeling can be avoided by including fish, flax oil, and flax seeds as part of your breastfeeding nutrition. To get the essential fatty acids they need, some breastfeeding moms can sprinkle flax on their cereal, yogurt, and salads.

Protein Builds Baby’s Muscles

Protein is important for proper muscle growth. Meat, nuts, and brown rice are all good sources of protein. You do not need large amounts of protein. You also get iron from the meat in your diet. You may need to include an iron supplement to make sure you are getting adequate iron to keep you and your baby from being anemic.

Calcium

Calcium is important for bone growth. If you do not get enough calcium in your diet, it will be taken from your body. This puts you at risk for osteoporosis and bone fractures. For most people, dairy is a good source of calcium. Soy, broccoli, and fortified juices can be other sources of calcium.

Water!

Perhaps the most important component of your maternal nutrition is water. Your body needs water to flush impurities from your system and keep you hydrated.

If you do not get enough water, your milk production is going to drop. Make sure that you increase your daily water intake while you are nursing. The best way to tell if you have been drinking enough water is if you and your baby are urinating adequate amounts.

Keep Taking those Vitamins!

You should continue to take your prenatal vitamins while you are nursing. So many of our foods are processed and nutrients are missing. The best way to make sure you are including all of the important nutrients you and your baby need is by taking a daily vitamin and mineral supplement.



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What is the Best Breastfeeding Diet for You?

How Do You Safely Manage Dieting While Breastfeeding?


That depends on your personality, your willpower and your preferences. Here are some examples of diets that work for breastfeeding moms who are considering dieting while breastfeeding.


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Mom jogging This healthy weight loss plan worked well for me when I had baby #1. It is this simple.


I could eat a per day maximum of:

  • 2 servings of starch (breads, crackers, rice, etc…) but only one serving at a time
  • 2 servings of protein
  • 2 servings of dairy

I had to eat a minimum of:

  • AT LEAST 4 servings of vegetables (but you CAN eat as much as you want) but only 2 of the vegetables could be starch vegetables like corn or potato
  • AT LEAST 2 servings of fruits (but not more than 4.)

Once a week I had a “treat.”

I also walked briskly — to the point where it is difficult to have a conversation -- (pushing my sweetie in a stroller)for 20 minutes a day five days a week.

I was able to safely lose the HUGE amount of weight that I had gained and be back in my pre-pregnancy size without giving up nursing.

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As I said, that was with my Baby #1. My Baby #2 was a different story altogether! She had "severe colic..." which means that for TEN MONTHS this child cried (even as I held her) from 4pm until 1 am every night.

I was exhausted. I was tired. I didn’t have the motivation to take on my breastfeeding diet alone this time.

If you find yourself in this situation, we recommend two options:

Option #1 -- Medifiast

Lose weight with MedifastMedifast has finally developed a program designed for breastfeeding mothers. If you have never tried Medifast, it is so easy and convenient. They provide 'meals' and 'snacks' and then you also eat one additional meal with lean meat and vegetables per day.

Although their Nursing Mothers Guide says that you can start this diet when your baby is only two months old, we would suggest that you wait until at least six months old and when your baby has added enough other foods to be getting at least 30% breast milk of his or her calories from breast milk and 70% from other foods.

Why do we love this plan? Because we have seen it work!

Tired and worn-out moms tend to reach for unhealthy food. In contrast, this is medically-approved breastfeeding diet plan helps new moms because they have convenient snacks, shakes, soups and more to make it easy to stay on the diet AND keep up with the demands of being a new nursing mom.

Lose weight with Medifast!

You can find more details from their free downloadable Nursing Mothers Guide on their website at Medifast1.com


Option #2 Diet to Go

Have you ever wondered how celebrities can look so good so fast after birth? It is because they have their own personal chef! I love Diet to Go because their low-fat plan allows breastfeeding mothers to have delicious food delivered right to their door.

New moms love it because there is no counting calories, carbs…or even shopping! So instead of just eating a PB&J with the toddler while nursing an infant…you can enjoy a treat of great food made just for you and lose weight too!

If you try this diet while breastfeeding, just make sure that you pick the low-fat plan 1600 calorie plan to allow enough extra calories to provide for your baby and still lose weight. I just wish they had had this breastfeeding diet sooner!


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What Kind of Breastfeeding Schedule Is Normal?

Why won’t your baby let you put him on a 4-hour breastfeeding schedule that other moms talk about?

Why does it seem that your baby wants to nurse all the time?

Because the 4-hour schedule isn’t normal. Research has shown that frequent nursing may be more biologically normal than the three-or four-hour schedule new parents are expecting!


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Think about it. How often would you eat if you were trying to double your weight in less than six months?

Plus it is simply not as healthy. They even tell us adults that 6 smaller meals are better than 3 regular meals for our bodies. Why should babies need less?



How Often Do Normal Babies Eat?

Beautiful breastfeeding According to an anthropologist from Texas A&M University named Kathy Dettwyler, breastfeeding more often is typical of babies around the world. She studied research done in 2000 looking at the breastfeeding schedule of children about 3 months old in three different parts of the world: families from Washington, DC, the Ba’Aka hunter-gatherers and the Ngandu farmers, both of the Central African Republic.

The Ba’Aka babies nursed about 4 times per hour. The Ngandu children breastfed about 2 times per hour and the American babies breastfed about one and one half times per hour.

The American infants breastfed less often than the two African infant groups, but they nursed much more often than parents were led to expect.

Don't Worry. You Baby is Getting Enough Milk

Many moms stress because they think that babies who want to nurse all the time must be really hungry and not getting enough milk?

A good lactation consultant will tell you that frequency of feeding is not a good way to measure how much milk your baby is getting. The truth is that babies who are really not getting enough to eat become sleepy, and feed less often. If your baby is giving you enough wet diapers…you are definitely getting him enough milk.


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You may just want to change your expectations.

My oldest never got on a 4 hour schedule. She ate about every two or three hours until I weaned her. (The truth is that she still tries to snack or eat every two to three hours!)

The bonus to having a frequent feeder is that the feedings themselves actually take less time and are easier to fit into your schedule.


The Bottom Line...

If your baby is still really small…don’t worry…they feed less frequently as they get older. So other than growth spurt times, they will adjust to a reasonable schedule.

If your baby is like mine and just wants to breastfeed more often… just know that someday you may actually find yourself nostalgic about those hours you spent snuggled up with your baby…because soon enough he will be more mobile and breastfeeding won’t be as high on his to-do list.


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Finding a Pediatrician Who Supports Breastfeeding

Finding a pediatrician who supports breastfeeding seems like it should be easy, but often it is not.  Here are some tips on how to find a pediatrician who will support and encourage you as a breastfeeding mom.

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finding a breastfeeding-friendly pediatricianMany expectant parents give little thought to the pediatrician they will take their baby to after they give birth. Many get recommendations from friends. They assume that the pediatrician their friends and relatives trust is the right pediatrician for their children. Others may take a phone number from a commercial or advertisement in a local paper. They assume the most advertised pediatrician must be the best.

Unfortunately, many parents end up switching pediatricians. They look much closer and take their decision far more seriously the second time around. One of the biggest reasons for making this switch is finding out that the first chosen pediatrician does not share parenting values that the new parents feel are important.

Breastfeeding is one issue where pediatricians can differ with parents. Most pediatricians are okay with breastfeeding, but not every pediatrician wholeheartedly recommends and encourages breastfeeding. Some simply believe that breastfeeding and bottle feeding are interchangeable, with few benefits in favor of breast milk.

If you are currently breastfeeding or know you want to breastfeed once your baby is born, do yourself a favor and find a pediatrician that supports breastfeeding. It is best to do this before the baby is even born.

Benefits of a Pro-Breastfeeding Pediatrician

There are some differences between a pediatrician who is okay with breastfeeding and one who encourages and supports breastfeeding. A pediatrician who is not an advocate for breastfeeding may encourage you to give up and go with the bottle if you have complications while breastfeeding. They may not take the time to help you figure out the problems and work through them so you can continue breastfeeding as long as you feel it is necessary.

Some pediatricians may not agree with you on the length of time a baby should be breastfed. For instance, if you plan to breastfeed even after your baby has developed teeth and is going into the toddler years, you will find that many pediatricians will not be very supportive. Some may even question your reasons for breastfeeding beyond the “norm.”

It is much different when you find a pediatrician who truly supports breastfeeding parents. They will not question your motives for wanting to breastfeed as long as it is healthy for your body and your baby is thriving. If you come across complications, this pediatrician will take the time to work out solutions so you can continue doing what is healthiest for your baby.

Analyze Recommendations

Start with the pediatricians that are recommended to you by your friends and family members. Contact other mothers you know, as well as expectant mothers, and ask them about their experiences with specific pediatricians. If they are not strict advocates of breastfeeding, their experiences can still be valuable. Ask them if they feel their pediatrician listens to them, spends time with them, and gives them accurate advice.

You should also ask how these pediatricians have responded to others concerning breastfeeding. You may ask if they have ever been given samples for baby formula from their pediatrician. Hearing that a pediatrician’s office hands out samples is a good sign that the pediatrician may not be as devoted to breastfeeding as you would like.

Mark pediatricians that do not seem to be in support of breastfeeding from your list of recommended pediatricians. You do not even need to contact them to know that they may not be ideal matches for your family. Even if your friends and relatives love them, it doesn’t mean they are well suited to your needs and parenting beliefs.

Making Contact with a Pediatrician

You should be free to contact a pediatrician and request a meeting before your baby is even born. It is natural for concerned parents to interview a pediatrician and talk to nurses in their office before deciding which pediatrician to trust with their baby. This is far better than switching pediatricians and having your baby’s files transferred after they are born and you discover you made a bad choice initially.

Have a list of questions with you when you meet with a pediatrician. You do not want to waste their time, and you do not want to react negatively if they are not the right fit for your family. You simply want to run some questions by them to determine if they should remain on your list or get marked off. If they are to be marked off, simply thank them for their time and head out to meet with another candidate.

Sample Questions to Ask When Finding a Pediatrician:

  1. If you aren’t sure what you want to ask or how to phrase your questions to get the best answers, here are some basic questions to use as samples:
  2.  Tell me about your training and experience with breastfeeding. What training have you gone through, and how recent was that training?
  3.  On average, what percentage of your patients breastfeed?
  4.  What advice do you give your patients regarding breastfeeding? Do you have any standard information that you give out to new mothers regarding breastfeeding?
  5. What age do you typically recommend your patients start introducing solids?
  6. Have you ever recommended a patient stop breastfeeding and switch to the bottle? What would lead you to make that recommendation?
  7. Are you supportive of parents deciding how long they want to breastfeed, or do you encourage weaning by a certain age?
  8.  How willing are you to help breastfeeding mothers find solutions to problems and complications that may come up while breastfeeding? Do you have the knowledge needed to help with these problems?
  9. Do you believe that breast milk and formula are the same? Do you think they are equally as healthy for a growing baby?

You may have some right and wrong answers in your mind; and you will know what you would like to hear in response to these questions. You should still keep an open mind and genuinely listen to the response given by the pediatrician. In some areas you may not be able to find a pediatrician who gives all the right answers to every question. If you listen closely you will at least find one who gives answers you can live with and work with in the long run. Remember you can also supplement this care with help from other breastfeeding professionals if you need to!

Look for Red Flags!

Mainly, you want to look for red flags that tell you a pediatrician is definitely not a good fit for you. The biggest red flag is the belief that breast milk is not superior to formula. You may hear an unsupportive pediatrician say that formula milk is now nearly the same as breast milk. This belief is going to stand in the way of supporting you if things do not go completely right with your breastfeeding journey.

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Spoiling a Baby

Are you spoiling a baby by responding to him every time he cries? Is she spoiled because you nurse on demand?

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No! Actually there is really no such thing as spoiling your baby. Not when they are newborn.

In fact, this is really a critical time for the baby’s bonding with you. It is best to spend as much time with your newborn as possible. This is especially important as a breast-feeding Mom. Babies need closeness to survive even. If there is no contact, it is bad for your baby. As they become a little older, that is a different story.

When Does a Child Become Spoiled?

Some parents believe that it is okay to just allow a baby to cry. Others respond to their baby’s every whimper.

Actually, when a child is that young, there is no way that a baby can distinguish whether or not crying will get them attention. Children tend to do negative things just to gain whatever kind of attention, even cry. A baby cannot process that.

Why Babies Cry

So why do they cry so much, you ask?

That is simple, because they are needing or wanting something. This is their form of communication.

You should always acknowledge your crying baby because this gives them the security and attention that they need. This is not spoiling a baby. It instills trust…because they know that you will be there for them.

Believe it or not the more that you acknowledge the crying, eventually the less likely he will be to cry when he needs you, since you are always there for him.

In fact, toddlers who were responded to quickly as infants tend to be less “needy” toddlers!

Cause and Effect

As your baby gets older, he will figure out that when he cries for something that is not necessary and you give in, he will start to relate the cause and effect. Babies under 5 months of age do not have this capability at all.

A Balancing Act

Now there are times that we just cannot run to their every little cry. There is no way that we can attend to everything that he is wanting. There must be balance in how we respond.

If he starts crying, allow him to cry until you have completed the task you set out to do (if it is simple of course). You never want a child to actually get into a screaming cry. Keep in mind that this is their language to us. This is how they communicate, so if they are crying very loudly, they need our attention in some way.

Loving a Child

There are so many people that think loving a child too much is spoiling them.

Actually, there is a huge difference between spoiling a baby and loving a child. Never be afraid to love your child. Don’t be afraid to hold them and show them as much affection as possible.

Children need that closeness from both of their parents as well as siblings and others who happen to be close to them.

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Should You Wake a Sleeping Baby to Breastfeed?

You look at your sleeping baby…and you know it’s time for your new baby to eat because your breasts are full and aching. But he’s lying there, angelic and perfect and totally asleep. Should you wake him to breastfeed, or let sleeping babies lie?

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As with most baby issues, the answer depends on your situation.

In general, you should let a sleeping baby sleep, and be thankful that you have a baby who will let YOU sleep. You’ll find out, as you continue breastfeeding, that your body will learn quickly what times your baby chooses to eat, and your breasts will fill in anticipation. The baby will wake and eat when he is ready – and that’s the very best option for him, in almost every case.

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Situations when you may want wake a baby…

In certain situations, however, you do want to wake your sleeping baby for breastfeeding. Sometimes it’s not up to you how you schedule your baby’s day.

If, for instance, you are breastfeeding and working full time, it’s wise to wake the baby and feed him before you go to work. This minimizes the time you’ll need to spend pumping, making it easier to continue breastfeeding despite the barriers you will have.

The same goes for any time you need to travel, go out, or any other situation when it will be difficult to feed your baby when he wants to be fed.



Situations when you should wake a baby…

Your doctor may also need to put your baby on a strict eating schedule. The two most common reasons for this: prematurity and a vague medical condition called “failure to thrive.” Another reason is jaundice.

Premature

A premature baby needs to eat every two hours, whether he wakes to do so or not. Regular feeding like this should continue until your baby’s doctor says he can go to an on-demand schedule.

Failure to Thrive

A baby who is diagnosed with “failure to thrive” does not gain weight or develop as he should. There are hundreds of reasons for this, from poor sucking ability to an underlying and undiagnosed medical condition. If your baby is diagnosed with this problem, he should have every possible opportunity to eat, which means waking a sleeping baby if he fails to wake up himself for a feeding.

Jaundice

Jaundice is another reason to feed your baby as frequently as possible. A baby with jaundice shows pronounced yellowing of the skin – in dark-skinned babies, the whites of the eyes will show the yellowing best – and if not treated, the condition can lead to mental retardation. This condition occurs very soon after birth, and is a problem with the liver in which bilirubin cannot be effectively removed from the blood. Carefully-limited exposure to sunlight is one treatment (and one this writer effectively used with her baby), but the components from the broken-down bilirubin need to be washed from the baby’s body.

The easiest way to do this is by frequent feedings. If you cannot effectively reduce the baby’s yellowing, you’ll need to take him back to the hospital, where intensive light therapy will be used in 24-hour periods to wash the bilirubin from his body (not a fun procedure!)

The General Rule

In general, unless your doctor tells you or your situation dictates otherwise, the best breastfeeding schedule for your baby is one where he chooses when to eat – and when to sleep.

If you’re one of the fortunate few with a healthy baby who sleeps through the night, enjoy it, and use the extra energy you’re blessed with to play with your new son or daughter…and not worry about whether you’re doing things right.



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Breastfeeding Tips for Moms with Larger Breasts

If you are a mom with larger breasts, you may find that the idea of breastfeeding a baby a little bit stressful.

You may not be able to hold your baby the way that a mother with a smaller bust will be able to, but the truth is, most women usually come up with their own special ways of holding their little one that is perfect for the both of them.

 

Top Tips

If you have bigger breasts, you’ll find that simply by keeping a few tips in mind, you’ll be able to feed your infant quite comfortably.

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The first thing that you should consider is that you should get a nursing bra that fits well. You’ll find that a good nursing brawill be supportive, and that this is quite important when you are looking feed your baby comfortably.

Don’t simply buy one that matches your pre-pregnancy size; you may have grown over the course of your pregnancy, and at the very least, an extender might be necessary. If at all possible, get fitted by a professional.

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Positioning

When it comes to holding the baby, you will want to work with what is called the “football hold.”

If you find that holding your baby in the traditional cradle hold is uncomfortable, tuck the infant underneath your arm, propped up on lots of pillows.

You’ll find that this is a great way to both support your infant and to make sure that your back doesn’t ache from holding a weird posture. You’ll also find that practicing with a doll or stuffed animal before the baby arrives is a good idea.

Latching On

There is a good chance that if you have larger breasts that the areola of your nipple is a bit larger as well. When your baby is latching on, make sure that he has a good portion of the areola in his mouth.

To make sure that he is getting the milk that he needs, the glands that are stored in this region of your breast need to be stimulated, so make sure that he is opening his mouth wide enough to do so.

Nursing in Public

This is more challenging for women with larger breasts, but it can be done. If you can manage the cradle hold well, then just cover up with a nursing cover or lift your shirt discreetly. Two-piece outfits (a top and a bottom) make nursing easier. Nursing tops with various types of hidden nursing openings are option available to make it even easier to be discreet.

If you use the football hold, use a very full diaper bag to support your baby (instead of a pillow) when breastfeeding.

No matter what size bra you wear, you’ll find that breastfeeding is, after a little initial fumbling, a fairly straightforward matter, so take the time to see what will make it go quite smoothly for you, but don’t hesitate to look support from your local Le Leche League or a lactation consultant if you feel you need one-on-one assistance.

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Breastfeeding and Lactation without Pregnancy

Want to breastfeed? It is possible to have lactation without pregnancy.

If you are an adoptive mother, whether by choice or due to a family catastrophe, or if you are considering adoption because you cannot have a child of your own, you may wonder if you can still enjoy the loving closeness of breastfeeding your new baby.

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One answer is, “Of Course!” if you have at least one functioning mammary gland, even if you have never had children, are past menopause, or have had a partial or total hysterectomy; you can experience lactation without pregnancy.

Induced Lactation

There are two general methods to inducing lactation, one is through sheer determination, and determined efforts and the other is by using medical protocols and medications to trick the body into thinking it has been pregnant. Even men’s breasts can be induced to lactate!

How Does It Work?

In either scenario of lactation without pregnancy, the protocols that need to be followed are simply to prepare the mothers breasts for the task of producing milk. Until our modern time, the only methods mothers had to achieve lactation without pregnancy was to put the baby to the breast and hope for the best. In ancient times, women who did not have children, usually maidservants, induced lactation as part of their services to the household.

The process of inducing lactation without pregnancy involves certain protocols that are designed to stimulate the breast tissue to develop milk ducts and the other necessary tissues responsible for milk production. If a woman has never produced milk before the process is much more involved since the tissue has yet to develop. The tissue is usually developed during pregnancy and therefore a woman who has lactated before already has the necessary equipment to produce milk right away.

Medical professionals advise women to begin stimulating their breast via hand compression or a breast pump, preferably medical grade, in advance of the arrival of the adopted baby. However, if the woman is not inducing lactation or inducing relactation via hormones, then the process takes longer and requires more vigilance and dedication when it comes to stimulating the breasts several times per day.

Understanding How Lactation Works

To understand how lactation without pregnancy works we need to understand what is involved in the process of producing breast milk. During pregnancy due to the influence of estrogens, progesterone, prolactin, and other necessary hormones at key times, the body naturally responds and prepares for the arrival of the baby and the subsequent breast-feeding.

When the baby arrives, right after birth, the levels of key hormones, such as progesterone and estrogen, drop and then the level of prolactin increases. This, in turn, prompts the brain to release oxytocin, which is the key hormone for the breasts to begin releasing the milk. In women who have not been pregnant, or who have not been pregnant recently, simply stimulating the nipples over a certain period of time will induce the body to produce prolactin and the brain to produce oxytocin. The time frame and amount of stimulation necessary varies from woman to woman and even from session to session.

Steps to Lactation without Pregnancy

Step One:

Decide how far in advance you want to start the process and if you will be using medications such as domperidone, reglan, birth control, or progesterone and estrogen therapy to induce lactation without pregnancy. If you are, then you need to do so under the care of a trained professional and follow their time lines. If you want to try without any medications, proceed to step two.

Step Two:

Begin stimulating the breasts via hand compression, breast massage, stimulating the nipple, or a breast pump. Breast pumps can be purchased from most stores that carry other baby supplies, drug stores, hospitals, online, or drug stores. Be prepared to purchase a pricier brand as these work much better. Gradually increase stimulation time, intensity, and frequency, as you are comfortable.

Step Three:

Be patient, lactation without pregnancy takes time. Some women who have lactated before report that it takes about 3 days to a week to relactate. Women who have never produced milk before report an average time of two-weeks to a few months for changes to occur.

If you seem to be getting no response or results, then try different techniques. You should see a reaction when things begin to work. Breast may increase a full cup size or more. They may also become tender or feel moist after your sessions. You may even feel a slight tingling or tugging sensation.

If you do not experience anything, then perhaps you can try changing the settings on your breast pump, try a pump with massaging action, try hot compresses, or even consider using herbal or food preparations as described below.

Step Four:

Breastfeeding Baby

When your baby arrives, even if you are not producing milk yet, go ahead and allow your baby to begin to suckle. You might try the use of a lactation aid at first. Remember, the more the baby suckles, the more milk you will produce. It’s a simple case of supply and demand. Enjoy the warm bonding that only breast-feeding can supply.

What About Supplements?

If you need to supplement, it is best to do so with a lactation aid. This increases the likelihood that you will experience a better supply of milk and still provides that closeness. Since the baby is being rewarded for its efforts by your using the supplement device, they are less likely to draw away in favor of the easier to achieve artificial nipple.

The supplement itself should be of good quality. If you were achieving milk before the baby arrived, hopefully, you were storing it up in the freezer. If not, next to your own breast, purchasing milk from a milk bank or certified donor is the next best thing. If those options are not available to you, then ask around to your trusted friends and see if any have an extra supply or have some they are not planning on using. Do check and make sure of their diets and if they are taking any medications or have any illnesses or pathologies which you may not be comfortable exposing your baby to. As a last resort, there is always infant formula you can fall back on.

What About the Use Of Medications?

Use Of Medications for RelactationThe idea of using birth control, medications, or other hormones to induce lactation may not sound safe, but just remember that they are only taken to induce the formation of breast tissue and are discontinued before milk production starts. Such is the case with the use of herbal remedies prior to lactating.

However, if you or your supplementary milk suppliers are on any prescription medications or supplements, you may want to consult your doctor, midwife, and lactation specialist before providing that milk to your baby. Not all side effects are known when it comes to infants and there have been past cases of major illnesses in conjunction with unknown side effects of medications in breast milk.

There are three different protocols to inducing lactation or relactating. They are the “Regular Protocol,” “Accelerated Protocol,” “Menopause Protocol,” and the “Independent Protocol.” The first two involve the use of hormonal treatments and/or herbal treatments. The third in involved after menopause or hysterectomies. And the Last one involves going it alone. The longer and more stimulation that is applied during a protocol, in general, the more milk that is produced.

Who May Benefit?

When it comes to breastfeeding there are more benefits than just the breast milk alone. In general, if you are going to breast feed to social and psychological reasons between you and your baby, you might as well try to provide them with the beneficial milk, if possible. The milk produced in induced lactation is usually the same quality mothers produce at ten days postpartum.

Adoptive Mothers

If you have had children before, then the entire process will be much easier. However, many mothers are adopting babies. Many of these women have not had children yet. Some women may had hysterectomies, not be able to produce children, may be a surrogate mother, may be caring for a child while the mother is away for an extended period of time, or may have fallen in love with a foster child or orphaned child and decided to adopt them.

For these adoptive mothers, whom have never produced milk or have not produced breast milk in many years, breastfeeding is an essential time of bonding and closeness for them and their baby. Breastfeeding can produce that bond just as biological mothers and babies experience. For them, inducing lactation without pregnancy in order to breastfeed, or even breastfeeding without producing milk, is an essential part of the new relationship.

Wet Nurses

Wet nurses, that is servants or hired specialists who may or may not have children of their own, have been used throughout the centuries to provide nourishment and social care for babies. These wet nurses, most of the time, induced lactation without having children of their own. It is not really necessary for women to have carried a child for lactation without pregnancy to be induced and good quality milk supplied.

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Breast Pump Bra Options for Hands-Free Pumping

If you are a working mom, you know that the breast pump bra is one of the best inventions for nursing moms! If you have to be away from your baby for extended times or you can’t feed your baby at the breast…it is so helpful to have hands-free pumping options like these.

Many times women have given up breastfeeding because of the inconvenience of having to pump. These bras have enabled moms to hook up the breast pump and continue multi-tasking without a second thought!

It is also can help the process to be more efficient because when you don’t have to keep your hands on the pump, you’re not focused on it, therefore you are relaxed, and this helps with the flow of milk. You can return phone calls, take notes or whatever else you need to do.

Popular Hands-Free Pumping Options

There are several brands of breast pump bras, all seem to do the same thing, aid in helping to use a breast pump hands free.

 The Simple Wishes Hands Free Pumping Bra offers the support of using a breast pump in both a strapped and strapless bra. This bra has a two inch zip-front that makes it easy to work with most all the brands of breast pumps. The zipper works with a Velcro back and the fabric is a very soft and comfortable cotton / Spandex blend, making it easy and simple to wear and use.
The next type is called PumpEase™ hands-free pumping supports. This support is as good looking as it is handy. Made to hold most breast pumps in place by securing the pump firmly to the breast, allowing you to be hands free. The polyester spandex blend maintains its shape for many many pumping sessions while remaining soft and breathable. This product comes in cute prints that make them fun to wear and use.
The third one is called Easy Expression Pumping Bustierand works basically like the first two by holding the breast pump in place allowing you to be hands free to do other things. This bustier has a zip-front design too which makes wearing and using it super easy. Made from a comfortable cotton / lycra blend so it’s soft as well as useful.

Both the Easy Expression and PumpEase are meant to be used with a nursing bra, the Simple Wishes is the total bra and support in one and doesn’t need an additional nursing bra.

All three of these have very good product reviews and recommendations. Nursing moms, especially those who have to pump either because of work, or because they have a preemie or multiples, find the breast pump bras a lifesaver and enables them to properly feed their babies breast milk for a lot longer than if they didn’t have this extra help.

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Caffeine and Breastfeeding Facts and Cautions

Caffeine and Breastfeeding
Many moms have questions about caffeine and breastfeeding. Overtired and worn out breastfeeding moms often ask, ‘How much caffeine can a I drink without affecting my baby?’

The truth is that less than 1% of the caffeine a mom consumes actually gets into breast milk. Doctors state that moms who consume less than 300 mg of caffeine per day while breastfeeding will not see side effects in their nursing child.

How much is 300 mg?

• 2-3 cups of coffee
• over 8 cups of Coke
• over 3 cups of Red Bull Energy drink

A Word of Caution

Be careful, however, different babies react to different foods and drinks. Some babies do not seem to be affected by caffeine at all while others have a very marked reaction. Pay special attention to your child’s reactions if you try it to see if it is something that you would be better to avoid.

Drinking or eating things with caffeine can affect some baby’s sleep and make him cranky just like some spicy foods. Since this is the last thing that a sleep-deprived mom needs…introduce caffeine into your diet slowly to gauge your baby’s reaction.




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Is Breastfeeding While Sick Safe?

Many moms wonder if breastfeeding while sick is safe for their children. Sometimes it is safe. Sometimes not.

Breastfeeding allows you to nourish and protect your baby with nutrients and antibodies that can only be produced by your body. No formula could ever compare to the protection your natural milk provides your baby against things in the environment that could make them sick. So, what happens when the things that could make them sick are within your own body? When you start to sniffle, cough and sneeze, do you stop breastfeeding or keep offering your milk to your baby?

Breastfeeding with a Virus, Cold or the Flu

Many new mothers do not want to breastfeed when they are coming down with a virus, cold or the flu, because they fear giving their illness to their baby. They fear the baby’s fragile body will not be able to handle the illness, and they just do not want to see their new baby suffer. This is understandable, but the human body already has this covered. In most cases, continuing to offer breast milk is an act of love, since those antibodies in the milk protect the baby from getting sick.

Antibodies combat illness inside the baby’s body, and your breast milk is filled with them. Once you start to feel the symptoms of your illness, you can guarantee your baby has already been exposed to the illness. If you stop breastfeeding, chances are high that the baby is going to get sick. You are taking away the antibodies which will help protect them, or at least make the illness less severe for the baby. If you continue breastfeeding, they continue to get the antibodies they need to fight off the illness.

This applies to the common bugs, viruses and flu that you may come down with through the course of your daily life. These temporary illnesses are not likely to harm your baby, even if you are running a fever, throwing up, or experiencing diarrhea. Make sure to mention to your doctor that you are breastfeeding if you are given antibiotics, but there are many antibiotics that are safe for breastfeeding mothers.

Breastfeeding While Sick With a Food-Related Illness

If you eat something bad and get sick, then you should still be safe to continue breastfeeding. Only in very rare cases do you need to stop breastfeeding, but it is important to note the difference between common illnesses and serious diseases that could be passed on to your baby through your breast milk.

Serious Disease

An example of a serious disease that would prevent you from breastfeeding would be HIV. That is far from an everyday cough or cold, so you would be warned by your doctor to stop breastfeeding immediately after diagnosis. An example of a common illness that will not hurt your baby is the flu that your children bring home from school in the winter time.

Protecting Baby

Even though your baby is exposed to your illness before you realize you have it inside your body, it is important to take basic steps to protect your baby as you would colleagues or older children in the home. You want to wash your hands before touching the baby and do your absolute best not to sneeze on the baby.

Your position for breastfeeding will likely change, as you will want to block the baby from your sneezes and coughs as much as possible. There may not be as much bonding and cuddling during feedings, but you can make up for that when you get better!

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Breast Feeding – THE Best Tip Is Easy for Breastfeeding Moms

by Melanie Berry
(Georgia)

Don't get in the way.

Don’t get in the way.

This is THE best tip and its easy to remember:

Just let him lead the way and don’t get in the way.

First let me say that I was fortunate not to have any extenuating medical conditions to interfere with breast feeding nor a job outside the home to interfere either and those 2 elements carry a lot of impact on the breast feeding journey for new moms especially.

By following my son’s lead, I never had any “issues”. I simply acquiesced to his need to breastfeed and my body’s ability to provide breast milk along with the nurturing elements of breastfeeding and the hormonal affect – on both of us – from breast feeding. I trusted, just as I did during the labor and birth process that somewhere in the deep recesses of my consciousness, if I just let my son and my body work together, to do what they knew to do, and I didn’t get too involved, but just kind of observed with gratitude, everything would turn out for the better and be what he needed most.

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Expressing Breast Milk: Top Tips for Breastfeeding Moms

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You hear a lot about women expressing their breast milk either by massaging their breasts with their hands or with a breast pump. Why would any woman want to do this, when it is so natural to allow the baby to feed directly off the breast? There are actually quite a few reasons why most women need to express milk at some point in their breastfeeding years. The most common reasons include:

  • The baby has difficulty latching and cannot express milk independently.
  • The baby was born premature or has a medical condition, forcing them to remain in the hospital. The mother may not be able to stay at all times to breastfeed naturally, but the baby needs the breast milk.
  • The mother must return to work but wants to continue feeding the baby breast milk.
  • The mother must return to work and needs to relieve the breasts of tension and avoid leaking.
  • The mother is working part time, and needs to leave bottles of breast milk at home with another parent or babysitter. They breast feed naturally the rest of the time.
  • There are problems with the mother’s milk, and it is not expressing properly for the baby.
  • The breasts are too full and overextended for the baby to comfortably latch. Expressing a small amount of milk allows the baby to latch correctly.
  • Improper breastfeeding has led to nipple damage. A period of time without natural feeding allows the nipple to heal.
  • The mother’s milk supply is starting to slow down. Expression can help get it going full speed again.
  • Nipple blockage may put the mother at risk of mastitis. The flow of milk clears the blockage.
  • Mastitis has set in, and the mother needs to maintain her milk flow.

Most mothers do have to express milk on their own at some point during their breastfeeding years. This often occurs when the other needs to return to work, or needs to leave the home for a short period of time without the baby. There may also be circumstances or locations where natural feeding seem inappropriate or uncomfortable for the mother. Expressing into a bottle ahead of time with a bottle nipple similarly shaped to the mother’s nipple can allow expression without wasting milk or breaking the baby’s habit of natural breastfeeding.


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How Can You Express Breast Milk

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You can store expressed breast milk to use later. If you are planning on returning to work or just taking a night away with your hubby, visit our Storing Breastmilk page for more information.

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Finding Help if You Need It

There are lots of mommies who can help you learn to express breast milk easily and without pain. If you don’t know anyone who has experience with this, you might want to try contacting a lactation consultant, a child health nurse, your doctor or your local Le Leche League.

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