Labor of Love
by Amanda R.
(Portage, IN )
Pumping at work, a normal part of my day.
Visitor Breastfeeding and Working Story: When my son was born, I was shocked to learn that breastfeeding was NOT as easy as I had thought. I powered through sore nipples, a horrible case of mastitis, and latch issues. After I got through the rough patches, it became clear that this is what our bodies were made for and my son was thriving.
I became extremely passionate about it and fell in love with the bond that it fostered between my sweet baby boy and me. I knew that the time was coming where I would have to return to work, and the mere thought if it terrified me. I remember many days of balancing the checkbook with tears in my eyes hoping that I could find a way to stay home.
I decided that even if I had to return to work, I was not going to let it stop me from breastfeeding. I researched pumping laws, breast pumps, and my employer's lactation policies. My husband was so supportive and encouraged me to stand my ground. My first day back to work, I arrived pump in one hand and car adapter in the other just in case there was no where for me to go.
It turns out there WAS a lactation room, complete with a rocking chair. The first few days were hard, and my breasts would let down every time I thought of my sweet 10 week old. Soon, though, I fell into a routine and pumping at work started to feel as normal as returning voicemails.
What I didn't expect was the curiosity and often times backlash from co-workers regarding my choice to pump. I politely informed them that I was planning to breastfeed exclusively for my child's first year, if not longer. I answered numerous questions and even kept quiet when the more rude co-workers spouted off how "gross" they thought it was.
I felt isolated; yet empowered at the same time because I knew that they were intimidated by my choice. I did receive support from friends, and I kept going because I knew it was the absolute BEST thing for my child. Our bond never suffered due to my going back to work!
Nursing him after a long day is truly the best and most precious gift. I pump two-three times per day, and thank goodness I have always been able to provide bottles for him while I am gone.
I also have extra milk frozen in case of emergencies. Of course I have had low supply days or times when I am stressed, but I always get through it. I keep videos and pictures of my baby on my phone readily available to help me focus.
My job requires me to travel during the work day, sometimes up to 100 miles. I pump in the car with an adapter and a stylish nursing cover. The bottom line is that it is worth it, and you can do anything you set your mind to!
The short term sacrifice is greatly overshadowed by the long term gain that my child is receiving. I am proof that full time working mothers can be full time breastfeeding mothers, and I would not have it any other way!
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